MissArquay

@MissArquay

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MissArquay

That verzuz had me too hype past my bedtime. Goodnight yall 😴

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MissArquay @MissArquay

Oh yeah it was a lil scuffle. Lol

NOWHITEIN @NOWHITEIN

the 3 6 mafia-bone thugs and harmony fight. 3 6 crew was mad. lol

MissArquay

Tell me how I tune into verzuz just in time to see a fight pop off. Wtf?

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MissArquay @MissArquay

Wouldn't that have been something. Lol!

MissArquay

I found the original video. She is more so talking about the difference in status ehen dating white vs black man, and how it's viewed by the white community. So mad I found the clip on World Star 🀣🀣🀣 https://m.worldstarhiphop.com/web/video.php?v=wshhwvnpR40PdA7M9M95

'Attention From A Black Guy Is Not A Badge Of Honor.. If You're White' Woman Says Shes Speaking For The Culture & He Looked Devastated!

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MissArquay @MissArquay

Yes, @Aggs that's why I wanted to get more context. Her statement makes sense to me. Wise did sum it up nicely, all the way down to the 'puzzled simp.' 🀣🀣🀣

Aggs3417 @Aggs3417

Thanks for the follow up post @MissArquay .. I understand what she’s saying now - from a wyte perspective & how they view wyte ppl who date black men .. & some of them make it very known of their disapproval.. wise explained it well .. πŸ‘πŸΎ

MissArquay

This morning on the radio they played a clip of a white woman speaking about how dating a black man is not a badge of honor. During the clip, someone attempted a rebuttal and she came back and reiterated that she was a white girl and a part of a circle of white women and dating black men is not a badge of honor for them. The hosts had people to call in and give their opinions on whether or not her sentiment was correct. Very interesting perspectives.

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Unapologetically_Supremely_Made @Supreme_Dyvuh

@MissArquay. Yes. Australia and NZ...Like the brothers and sisters in Samoa and Hawaii.. b.e.a.u.t.i.f.u.l❀️❀️❀️❀️. Make the Rock look like an alien (I think he look like one anyway butπŸ€·πŸ½β€β™€οΈ...). The ladies have this hair that goes on for days. Alot of them and the Samoan women are voluptuous. They built for the gawds hunty. I was like....when I grow up!!!!🀣😭🀣😭. And they got the swag the cones from being deeply connected to your roots and fighting oppression. Remind me so much if diasporic ADOS.

MissArquay @MissArquay

I thought that might be what you all were talking about. There are fine indigenous men in New Zealand? Lol! I had no clue.

MissArquay

I need for us to come up with better excuses, or better yet no excuses when it comes down to things we are not interested in or not interested in doin. As adults, we are all busy and we all 'have a lot going on.' Lol! Just keep it real.

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lanceromance41 @lanceromance41

At the most, the best excuse would be honesty.

Unapologetically_Supremely_Made @Supreme_Dyvuh

It's an avoidance mechanism steeped in fear of...(being too honest, looking bad, etc.). When the truth is sometimes you just cannot. And we say 'yes' instead of...'I cannot because'...

MissArquay

Happy Monday Black Planet 😊 I just saw Jazmine Sullivan's acceptance speech after accepting her BET Award for Album of the Year. I found her speech so uplifting and her honesty about being self conscious refreshing even though she looked tf good!

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MissArquay @MissArquay

It's cool. I hope you are enjoying yours also.

law-187 @law-187

@missarquay you're welcome 😁 . I hope you're enjoying your Monday

MissArquay

I've seen a few posts on here referencing the 'alpha male.' I don't think I've ever known what it was but I interpreted it to mean a man with a strong mind. These screenshots are from the urban dictionary. What does the term mean to you? If you are a man, why is it important to identify yourself this way?

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MissArquay @MissArquay

Okay, I understand those perspectives @Wise and Dnice. Thank you for responding. I was thinking along the lines of @i-know1 because if you are a leader we would know by the actions but I see some people announce it or make reference to their being one. @seriously I got thrown off by the use of words like obnoxious, arrogant, selfish. Those are not flattering terms but I do understand the desire to lead.

i-know1 @i-Know1

For me a male being labeled Alpha is similar to a woman who is very beautiful. The true Alpha never has to announce his status just a very beautiful woman never has to announce that she is beautiful. Alpha males are leaders that other males eagerly follow. Do you recall seeing the movie Mobsters with Lucky Luciano, Bugsy Seigal, Meyer Lansky and others?

MissArquay

Okay, Queen Sugar be giving Good Times vibes. Every time good things happen bad things are right on their heels.

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seriouslynoseriously @seriouslynoseriously

@MissArquay yeah on the OWN app

MissArquay @MissArquay

Where can I find it? Or were you watching it on TV?

MissArquay

I found this interview interesting. https://youtu.be/S8-JAw1SDMA

Memphis OG Project Pat Drops The Real About Young Dolph Being Murdered!

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MissArquay @MissArquay

Okay I got it now. Thanks.

i-know1 @i-Know1

I believe it is more so when they are going through withdrawal. Until they get their fix they are like a bomb ready to explode

MissArquay

THROWBACK THURSDAY BIRTHDAY EDITION: Throwing it back 10 years to my 30th birthday. I can't believe how fast time flies. I remember this night like it was yesterday. Life was beating my ass but I wasn't going to let that stop me from shaking a tail feather. I wasn't into black hair but my cousin gifted me this wig for my birthday and I liked that it gave me a different look. 5 of us went out that night to the Cheesecake Factory and my favorite club at the time Sosta in Hollywood, FL. It was a good time!

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Am_ghanageria-Reborn @Am_ghanageria4

@missarquay Thanks so much madam and no problem at all! Wow, you remembered, I appreciate that. At my age, that mean a lot!

MissArquay @MissArquay

Thank you @Am. I didn't get to really celebrate yet. Doing that tomorrow night, but yes I did enjoy it. And a Happy Birthday to you as well. Believe it or not, I remembered from the zoom call 😊