vivain74

@vivain74

I am honest. I love to laugh and joke around. I like๐Ÿน๐Ÿบ๐Ÿท๐Ÿšฌ๐Ÿ’ฏ and have a good time, at 47 year old. I don't like lies, drama, and messy ppl. I am not catty and have no kids. If you not willing to put in time and work to know me, past me by. I love God and plan to be in heaven one day, so no religion can replace the one I love. Thank you ....Jesus. I love my US black men and seeing black love striving. I am truly unique and want a relationship in witch God want for me. However, I am personally not expecting a relationship that leads to marriage. Sorry, there is no need for it. Relationships takes too much work And alot of time from my viewpoint, but the door is not closed. My biggest deal breaker, is not telling the whole true and doing long distance relationship. No pic๐Ÿ“ธ, no conversation! You can play stupid if you want to, I have no problem blocking you..scammers! My family is more important than any one will know, so no relationship outside my family can come in with their problems. Hell, I am learning to put me first and gain back my joy, I freely give away.๐Ÿ’ƒFuck the bullies, scammers, and two๐ŸŽญface ppl wasting time hating on me. I want to breath and live๐Ÿ–. Trust me, I have no crushes on BP!๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ‘€๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ‘ตI am veteran that served my country in ANG and AF. I got out to be a caregiver to father, who pass away 2015. If you need to put yourself over me, what that say about you..like my time and my money, don't waste it. If you can not match me in the financial department, walk on by...I may not be rich, but I am good!

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vivain74

My Sister in Law lost her brother today. He pass away at the house in the pray position and was stiff and cold to the touch. My brother said they believe it was a heart attack, but wait for medical team to confirm. He was a year younger than Randy and I, 46 years old. Hell, I for forget my age every day. I am praying for them. He was a grandfather, dad, brother and son. He went so early.

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illreel__ @illreel__

I'm sorry to hear that my condolences to the surviving family... #R.I.P.Brother...๐Ÿ‘‘โœจ๐Ÿ‘‘

Soulsonsix @Soulsonsix

Sending condolences and prayers for solace for you and your family.

vivain74

There was a time I believe, grabbing a piece of happiness in life was what I was worth, but now I want that cup that over run forever. Don't allow some one to make you question what you desire in life. No one should ask you, if your ready for love....tell the devil to get behind you.....it is the mission in every one life to find that cup, that over runs!

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vivain74 @vivain74

Merry Early Christmas to everyone!

vivain74

Have you ever want to tell your future partner how much you love Xmas and how now you understand, the message in the bible, about thirst for water. Some one can give you water when your thirsty, but to never thirst a again...water that run over forever...last for eternity! That real connect in life, and not just the fantasy or idea of part of life! It like knowing who is in your life to love you, and nothing is taken for granite and wish love for every one!

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vivain74

If I am not feeling your vibe anymore, please just respect that.....It is hard to explain why this happens but it does happens. I really did not know the word 'stop and no', was terms I hate to say, until the rapes was a factor for me...so when I say it now...it seem like a trigger, when the other person keep on pushing their agenda. I just don't know how to explain the my situation, but I never wanted to hurt anyone by looking out for myself. Like I said, sometimes I need to come first, even when I particpated in the situation at the beginning. Now, I get why I say no and stop to ppl, I do think it bad way to test ppl, but I need to know I am heard and respected.

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vivain74 @vivain74

So when I say it me and not you, please understand!

vivain74

No one is talking about, this new virus mutating....and all we doing is waiting for it to hit the US! People not stock up yet, okay...maybe i am worried too much!

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NOWHITEIN @NOWHITEIN

omicron is here

vivain74

The Holy Spirit is my advisor and comforter, so I do let it guide me, even if you don't understand me. I know the light in my soul can be dim sometimes...but those that know me...know the light and the righteous I shower them with. Ppl need good ppl like me, bc I am made and designed by God.....Amen!

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Aggs3417 @Aggs3417

Amen @vivian74 .. God bless your day & continue to use you in ways to glorify Him. ๐Ÿ’•๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒบ

sexyblackcat1 @sexyblackcat1

Blessings Sis โœด๐Ÿ˜Šโœด

vivain74

Happy Thanksgiving BP!

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coffeeman_80 @coffeeman_80

Happy Thanksgiving!๐Ÿ—

MissArquay @MissArquay

Thank you. Happy Thanksgiving!

vivain74

Therapy and working on me feel refreshing, until the new year!

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sexyblackcat1 @sexyblackcat1

โœด๐ŸŒท๐Ÿค—โœดBlessings Sisโœด๐Ÿค—๐ŸŒทโœด

Aggs3417 @Aggs3417

Thatโ€™s awesome Viv .. Congratulations! Enjoy the journey & transformation ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿพ๐ŸŒบ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿฝโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน

vivain74

Some women know, when a man approach is for friendship, friendship with benefits, or or just sex...Out of the mouth, is spoken the abundance of what is truly wanted. Why would anyone be mad of rejection, when their approach is a game of confuse and \ or manipulate from the beginning. True intention can be respected more, then the game of deceit.

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vivain74 @vivain74

Honesty is my curse and blessing! Lol

โšœ๏ธโšซ๏ธโšœ๏ธ Gentโ€™ @PrfctGntlmn30

Ultimately, itโ€™s about open and honest communication.

vivain74

https://youtu.be/2hnYyiqcCPg it is long, but worth hearing!

Steven Furtick - Why Am I Anxious Part 1

Why Am I Anxious Part 1Steven Furtick MinistriesDisclaimer:We do not own the rights of this video. The video's intention and purpose is to share it's capabil...

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vivain74 @vivain74

Happy Sabbath!